Having you found yourself thinking about how to get down with the opposite sex all the time,and u feel u are not normal.Am here to tell u that u are normal,but there are certain things u can actually do to correct it."I find myself thinking about girls all the time-when they are not around,"says a young man.."it's so funny that sometimes I can't even concentrate"
Do u,like this young man spend so much time,like waking up thinking about the opposite sex? If so u may feel like as if u are in a war with ur brains and mind..
These evil taught can consume ur minds,,and can even make u take a stroll to look at young guy or girl who may be leaving close to u..maybe just to stare sexually at them...
Remember though,that sexual feelings aren't evil in themselves.After all,it was God who created man and woman to a strong affection for each other..and satisfying sexual desire is proper,but within married people..
If u are still thinking of sex all the time,,well it's not good,, keep ur taught about the opposite sex under control...
Remember,,what u allow ur mind to dwell on,can shape ur personality and affect ur actions..---(James 1 vs 14 -15 ).
Ways u can help ur self..
1.Examine ur association....yes if ur friends start talking about sex,,u maybe tempted to join in--just so as u don't stand out as if u are different,,and it's common between guys...they can brag about how many girls they had had sex with...so my advice is to leave the conversation and move away....
2.shun immoral entertainment..:of course not every CD or movie is bad..but today's entertainment is designed to arouse improper sexual taughts....the Bible said,,"let us cleanse ourselves of every defilement of flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in God's fear."..(2 corinthians 7:1)..
3.. Avoid masturbation..most youths male and female find it hard to flee away from such evil acts..but let me ask u this question?.... would u allow virus to invade ur computer?then why invite immoral taughts into ur mind?..
Masturbation can make u a slave of ur own desires....if u are been sank in the liquid of masturbation,, don't give up hope,, fight against it...I have a fellow who told me that "I can't do without masturbation""..but now,,he is free of that bondage..yes ,u can do the same..
4.stop viewing ponography:..yes,,veiwing of sexual arousing videos through our phone or cassette,, it's bad,,shun this act..yes..shun it and also shun whosoever does this..
5..Stop going to and opposite sex house all alone even if both of u are just friends.. staying Alone could stimulate ur thinking of sex,,and before u know it,,happens right away..a later,,what comes next would be regret..
6.Tell any sexual arousing friend to back off,,quit with such people,either male or female ..tell me to back off..yes u can still try wanting to convince them,,but if they insist,,tell them to move away from u.
Good
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